Warm the oil with your hands

Take a generous portion of oil into your hands and rub it in to warm it up, then gently spread the oil onto the part of your partner that you’re massaging. It’s generally typical to start with the back and shoulders.
Never pour oil directly onto the back of your partner if it’s cold. This can be startling and uncomfortable, and it can make your partner feel tantric tense. Warm the oil up yourself and periodically add more, if the skin starts to dry out, or the oil gets worked in.
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